I think “dating down” says a lot about it all.
I don’t know about other guys, but I like smart articulate women. It’s success that I do not care about one way or another. It’s good if she is, equally good if she is not.
I think if successful women were not so hung up on whether or not their man was successful, they might find a decent guy.
But, that’s just my opinion, I could be wrong.