[But, like I said above, I make my moves on chicks in normal life, where you can actually carry on a civil conversation, and be witty and clever and sexy and maybe even a little dark and dangerous, so that it makes an actual difference what you have to say...]
Don’t get elitist, it’s just a different skill-set. Don’t worry about it if what you’re doing works for you and you’re happy with that, but understand that the club environment’s obstacles can be overcome and you can gain certain reference experiences gaming there that you generally don’t in different venues.
(and yes, I’ve done day game and I know what you’re talking about, but I personally prefer night game despite the challenge…or rather because of the challenge lol)
Don’t worry about it if what you’re doing works for you and you’re happy with that, but understand that the club environment’s obstacles can be overcome and you can gain certain reference experiences gaming there that you generally don’t in different venues.
I’m not dissing “night” game – I’m just wondering [and have always wondered, going back to freaking Junior Dadgum Highschool] how it can even exist in the first place.
I honestly don’t know how you “talk” to a chick if you’re in some establishment with a liquor license and a dance floor and a sound system which is blaring hip hop noise at 110dB.
I understand the idea of a meat market, and I understand body language, and I understand raw, visceral [almost innate] sexual attraction, but there’s supposed to be an intellectual aspect of game [where you prove what a clever, cunning and devious conversationalist you are] which simply cannot exist in that environment [unless, like I said, both you and she are lip-readers].