I doubt anyone would still read this who posted stuff like a month ago, but to everyone bitching that being an asshole doesn’t get you a relationship, I’m a born beta here(at least, I am when I like the girl. I am the kind of person who’s really tough and quite the asshole on the outside(circumstances made me like this), but have a gentle side too) and I’ve spent 3 years chasing after a girl like a typical beta did. 2 years in I started to lose hope and didn’t talk to her as often, if at all. I run into her downtown, she asks me out out of nowhere. I was all back to being in love and being the beta, 2nd date, she ditches me for another guy she just happened to see.
I made all the beta mistakes. Apologize too often, remind her that I care about her, talk to her whenever I get even close to the chance, and I know I still make these mistakes.
Same with other girls after that. When I showed them the sweet, caring, nice guy, they lost interest. The girls I treat like normal people(Which means I’m an asshole to them) are all over me, but I don’t care about them. Would you care to explain to me what that problem is?
Besides, from what I read, this isn’t a guide to your perfect relationship and happy marriage, but a guide to find a chick, bang her, and move on.
on September 21, 2009 at 4:15 pmdjoye
VII–this is why “good girls” think men are dimwit assholes..