With that said, I had to go to the OP and give it a quick glance-over before commenting. My Mr. “Emotionally Unavailable” #1 developed feelings that outlasted mine, but even he did not go the mile that’s being illustrated in this post. The first thing I want to point is the difference between being emotionally unavailable and simply not wanting to pursue a/any relationship. I can assure you that a lot of guys who claim to be EU end up emotionally invested in their pseudo-relationships. Therein lies the confusion for women. A truly emotionally unavailable man may be courteous and kind, but will or should not have what is essentially a relationship sans title. There is a big difference between being a decent human being enjoying another’s company and getting to a point where you can legitimately be considered an item. Good morning emails and goodnight texts? These are [standard] sweet things that encourage certain emotions. I can understand wanting to enjoy some perks of relationships, but be honest with yourself and consciously draw a line somewhere.