To Couples: Fighting All the Time is NOT Healthy
3 Ways to Bring Life and Spirit Into Your Relationship
Relationship Advice on How to Fight Fair
8 Different Relationship Labels and What They Mean
3 Ways to Let Go of a Breakup with Spiritual Practices
Crazy Conchita (My Alter Ego) Almost Ruined My Relationship
Why Chemistry Alone Does Not Make a Relationship
My Boyfriend Disappeared on Me for 3 Hours on Date Night
I Don’t Want to Let Go of Expectations in Relationships
How and Why to Let Your Man Be a Man in a Relationship
5 Ways to Tell If You Are In A Toxic Relationship
When A Relationship Changes…You Have “The Talk”
When A Relationship Changes…
How to Stand Out from Every Other Girl and Be A Modern Siren
How To Make Time For Your Relationship
For Women: Are You Afraid of Commitment?
To Facebook Friend or Not To Facebook Friend A Man
The Opening: Why Men Come Back
Becoming Emotionally Intelligent: From Drunk Dialing to Reflection
But wait, there’s good news!
If you hold your frame rock-fucking-solid for long enough, congruently, through enough shit-tests (how many you have to pass varies depending on the woman), eventually the stronger frame wins and she’ll accept your frame and write you off as not someone who can/will provide her with kids. She may leave at this point, but more likely if you have a good sexual relationship, she’ll just shop around for a beta provider type to have kids with but still fuck you. She’s usually still attracted to you, nothing’s changed there, it’s just that her wiring says “okay there’s no blood to squeeze out of this stone, let’s move on for the sake of our biology”.
Personally, I COULD actually see myself wanting kids someday, and even to raise them with a woman. There are some appealing things about the white-pickett fence lifestyle that as I get older, might appeal to me.
BUT, for the sake of keeping my life and relationships drama-free, do I let women know this? Fuck no. I make sure to come across like I would never ever want those things. Down the road if I find a woman I want to do that stuff with I can always let her “win me over” and go for it. But I get much less hassle in my life if I don’t allow them any possibility of thinking I’m going to give them that million dollars someday.
I learned this stuff first-hand by breaking a lot of very sweet relationship-quality girls’ hearts. I hate making women cry, coming off as too effed up for a serious relationship is better for both of us to me lol
Good luck!
P.S. Ignore NiteLily’s troll-baiting.
3 Ways to Bring Life and Spirit Into Your Relationship
Relationship Advice on How to Fight Fair
8 Different Relationship Labels and What They Mean
3 Ways to Let Go of a Breakup with Spiritual Practices
Crazy Conchita (My Alter Ego) Almost Ruined My Relationship
Why Chemistry Alone Does Not Make a Relationship
My Boyfriend Disappeared on Me for 3 Hours on Date Night
I Don’t Want to Let Go of Expectations in Relationships
How and Why to Let Your Man Be a Man in a Relationship
5 Ways to Tell If You Are In A Toxic Relationship
When A Relationship Changes…You Have “The Talk”
When A Relationship Changes…
How to Stand Out from Every Other Girl and Be A Modern Siren
How To Make Time For Your Relationship
For Women: Are You Afraid of Commitment?
To Facebook Friend or Not To Facebook Friend A Man
The Opening: Why Men Come Back
Becoming Emotionally Intelligent: From Drunk Dialing to Reflection
But wait, there’s good news!
If you hold your frame rock-fucking-solid for long enough, congruently, through enough shit-tests (how many you have to pass varies depending on the woman), eventually the stronger frame wins and she’ll accept your frame and write you off as not someone who can/will provide her with kids. She may leave at this point, but more likely if you have a good sexual relationship, she’ll just shop around for a beta provider type to have kids with but still fuck you. She’s usually still attracted to you, nothing’s changed there, it’s just that her wiring says “okay there’s no blood to squeeze out of this stone, let’s move on for the sake of our biology”.
Personally, I COULD actually see myself wanting kids someday, and even to raise them with a woman. There are some appealing things about the white-pickett fence lifestyle that as I get older, might appeal to me.
BUT, for the sake of keeping my life and relationships drama-free, do I let women know this? Fuck no. I make sure to come across like I would never ever want those things. Down the road if I find a woman I want to do that stuff with I can always let her “win me over” and go for it. But I get much less hassle in my life if I don’t allow them any possibility of thinking I’m going to give them that million dollars someday.
I learned this stuff first-hand by breaking a lot of very sweet relationship-quality girls’ hearts. I hate making women cry, coming off as too effed up for a serious relationship is better for both of us to me lol
Good luck!
P.S. Ignore NiteLily’s troll-baiting.